Nurtured Heart Approach
Nurtured Heart Approach
The Nurtured Heart Approach is a relationship-focused methodology specifically designed to help not only emotional intelligence but also positive behaviors among children, especially those who have challenging behaviors. The focus here is on observing and nurturing the natural greatness within every single child, guiding, in this case, self-esteem and resilience improvement through positive feedback and real connection.
What are the core principles of the Nurtured Heart Approach?
The Nurtured Heart Approach is constructed with three fundamental tenets, namely, 1) 'Absolute Clarity' regarding the expected behavior, 2) 'Energy' that redirects attention to recognizing and celebrating positive behaviors rather than solely dealing with the negative ones, and 3) 'Limit Setting' that is just and stable. For instance, a parent might not just scold a kid for cutting off the speaker but instead, draw attention to the kid's good listening by being quiet, thus acting in a positive manner.
How does the Nurtured Heart Approach benefit children with challenging behaviors?
The particular way of doing things has a direct impact on children with difficult behaviors. Instead of their being involved in negative behaviors, they are redirected to the positive traits and accomplishments. The children through reinforcing the desirable behavior consistently, they come to the point of associating success exclusively with positive interactions, and consequently, they are able to self-regulate and socialize better. For example: A child who cannot control himself/ herself from doing things without thinking may get praises for being patient and that may be the ultimate way to encourage him/ her.
Can the Nurtured Heart Approach be applied in educational settings?
Definitely, the Nurtured Heart Approach is best used in schools. That is the route that teachers can use to build a school with positive energy where students feel authentic and are appreciated. For example, a teacher may use a system of giving students 'energy' points, for example, when they show kindness or collaboration with others, and, by this, reinforce positive interactions among peers, and, as a result, enhance the whole classroom dynamic.
What role do parents play in implementing the Nurtured Heart Approach at home?
By their active process of recognizing and nurturing the strengths and the positive behaviors of their child, parents are the crucial implementers of the Nurtured Heart Approach at home. They can build a supportive environment by the small victories they celebrate, the clear expectations they set, and the consistent feedback they provide. For instance, a parent would praise their little one's reading ability towards being able to complete the assigned homework aside from the only grade they get, and such an interaction will, in turn, help them to be more confident and motivated.